Communication is key. This is how I do it.
Three weeks left into 2015, and I am realising that it wasn’t a very good year.
I got a lot done, yes. But I got worn out in the process.
I grew in many ways. But I also devolved into something I never thought I would become – a woman obsessed with getting married.… Read more
It has been nine years since I walked your streets. I still remember how enamoured I was with your glittering storefronts and charming street side cafes. How in your dirtiness, you remain beautiful. I have seen your sights, breathed your air, eaten your baguettes, basked in your gentle sunshine. … Read more
It was just one word. Simple, clear, straight-to-the-point.
It was given a thumbs down.
It was too strong, too alienating, too loaded. It would scare people off.
I didn’t understand what the problem was. It was a word I had picked out from a verse that spoke exactly what we wanted to say.… Read more
Particularly – single men who find me intimidating.
Yes, I know I can be intimidating. I’ve been called that by both men AND women. Poster girl for the modern, 21st century independent woman. Super Girl, Iron Lady, Wonder Woman. I took them all as compliments. … Read more
If there’s one thing that I’ve learnt in the past fifteen weeks (and counting), it’s that a full calendar does not equate to a full life.
It was fine at first – I was managing nicely with all my work, project, and ministry commitments.… Read more
“Where are you headed?”
“I’m going back home,” I said.
I didn’t have warm memories from my childhood. … Read more
God knows how to fill an empty cup.
I was feeling spiritually dry for a while, and frustrated that special moments with the Lord have become few and far between. Then my friend invited me to watch Planetshakers as her birthday treat. … Read more
Last weekend, the US legalized same-sex marriage. Rainbow colors filled my screen when I finally got online after my mid-year fast. And with it, various commentaries and opinions – many of which are from the Christian community. I didn’t read or listen to what other people had to say.… Read more
