Better.

In my current saga of getting over what-could-have-been, I am coming to realise a few things.  I had begun to settle.  And although it seemed like he was good enough, I actually deserve better.

I deserve better than a man who seemed to fit the criteria, but actually was just someone who happened to be available.… Read more

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Ms Independent.

From a very young age, I have always been my own person.  At age eight, I had opted out of the normal child’s life.  Instead of spending breaks playing with other kids, I spent my lunch hour reading in the library.… Read more

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Of Wheat Fields and Foxes.

So the little prince tamed the fox. And when the hour of his departure drew near —
“Ah,” said the fox. “I shall cry.”
“It is your own fault,” said the little prince. “I never wished you any sort of harm, but you wanted me to tame you…”
“Yes, that is so,” said the fox.

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In The Waiting Room.

What comes to mind when someone tells you to wait?  Whether it’s at the bank, in your job (for that long-overdue promotion) or for The One to come along and profess undying love (admit it, you started wishing at age 12 and haven’t stopped since) – waiting often comes with a tinge of anxiety.… Read more

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Wait on the Lord.

So here’s the reason I started this blog.  I know one too many ladies who, in their longing to be loved (and, more precisely, to be wed), have grown tired of waiting.  They spend so much time thinking about what they’re missing (marriage) that they cannot enjoy the fullness of what they have (singleness).… Read more

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Guard Your Heart.

Proverbs 4:23
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

What does it mean to guard your heart?  If you are, like me, a young Christian female, you have probably heard this phrase countless times in the context of love and relationships.  … Read more

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