Note To Self #12

They say – sometimes you win, sometimes you lose.

But when it comes to life and love, it shouldn’t be about winning or losing. Because when things fall apart, anyone involved suffers some form of loss. And anyone involved also has something to gain.… Read more

Note to Self #11

True love desires commitment. True commitment begs exclusivity. And true exclusivity is costly.

Don’t allow yourself to go for bargain basement price. And don’t buy cheap stock. Expect to get and be willing to pay for the cost of a real relationship.… Read more

Note to Self #10

There is a kind of waiting where you have no idea when it will end, and how it will end. That’s probably one of the hardest times to get through. But it is also one of the best times to prepare yourself for what is to come.… Read more

Note to Self #9

You may not think it now, but in hindsight, you wouldn’t have it any other way. Because this moment is defining you in ways you never imagined.

Surrendering something to God places it in the best possible hands. To you, the future may be unknown, but it is not necessarily uncertain.… Read more

Note to Self #8

It hurts that much because you loved that much.

You chose to love, knowing full well that you can be hurt. But you loved, anyway. Because you believed in the possibility of something greater. And that – the belief, the hope, the possibility – shouldn’t die when the hurt sets in.… Read more

Music for the Golden Hour.

Jazz has always had that strange appeal to me – it’s not quite my favourite genre, but it’s great to listen to at certain times or seasons.  Like during sunset or sunrise, when the sky has a soft glow.

I was tasked to make a playlist of warm background music for a church event, something that encourages people to mingle and interact.  … Read more

Note to Self #7

No matter how long it takes, YOU ARE WORTH EVERY MINUTE OF THE WAIT.
Don’t shortchange yourself. Good things take time. Great things are forever.
Patience. Because instant is overrated. There are no shortcuts to real and lasting love.
Repeat first line as needed.
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