I came across this discussion on a Christian dating site quite a few times. I have avoided the subject because it was a contentious issue. Yesterday, I decided to dip my toes in and was overcome by a tidal wave of ideas.… Read more
I came across this discussion on a Christian dating site quite a few times. I have avoided the subject because it was a contentious issue. Yesterday, I decided to dip my toes in and was overcome by a tidal wave of ideas.… Read more
All those nights living without you taught me to surrender my heart to God. But it has taught me something else. It taught me to give you up.
I had come face to face with the reality that you were never mine. … Read more
I just need to get this off my chest. In no particular order –
My mom asked me last week – so what’s your birthday wish? Actually, I asked myself the same question just a few days earlier. And I didn’t have an answer both times.
Is my life perfect? Not really. So isn’t there something I wish could be different? … Read more
About two months ago, I heard a conversation that shook me to the core. All it took was one line.
“Who’d want to marry you?” a male voice had said.
It was spoken in jest, and it was not even directed at me. … Read more
This will sound jaded – it may even come as a shock to some – but there is no such thing as happily ever after. At least, not in the conventional definition. By conventional, I mean boy-meets-girl story that ends in marriage, “and they lived happily ever after.” … Read more
In my current saga of getting over what-could-have-been, I am coming to realise a few things. I had begun to settle. And although it seemed like he was good enough, I actually deserve better.
I deserve better than a man who seemed to fit the criteria, but actually was just someone who happened to be available.… Read more
From a very young age, I have always been my own person. At age eight, I had opted out of the normal child’s life. Instead of spending breaks playing with other kids, I spent my lunch hour reading in the library.… Read more